If You Want to Stop Your Husband Straying: Give Him Sex on Demand
Cath Elliott
Posted on September 1, 2008
You really couldn’t make this crap up. From the Observer:
“A family counsellor turned author has caused outrage by claiming in his latest book that if women want to stop their partners straying, it is their responsibility to stop them.
Gary Neuman, an American psychotherapist who has featured on Oprah Winfrey’s TV show and in Time magazine, has angered feminists by listing changes in behaviour that women should make in order to keep their companions faithful.
The tips – which Neuman says are ‘dedicated to helping wives’ – include: always forgiving him; giving him sex on demand; lavishing praise on him for providing for the family, even if earning more than him; rarely letting him out on his own with friends or work colleagues; and taking an interest in his hobbies.”
Yep, apparently it’s all our fault if our male partners go off and have affairs, and if we want to keep them, we’re going to have to accept the blame and learn to change:
“If a husband has already cheated, his wife’s role is to recognise that she needs to change” Says Neuman.
Do you know what I find really depressing about all this? Apart from the obvious woman-blaming shite obviously……
According to his resume, Gary Neuman not only gives counselling to the children of divorced parents (I dread to think what he tells them!), but he also gives training to mental health professionals working in domestic violence shelters.
That’s all we need. A misogynist victim blamer training domestic abuse professionals
Still, according to his site he “does read all of the email sent to him.”
Why not drop him a line.
Too Much To Say For Myself 
I’ve heard elsewhere that there are individuals whose views are similar to Gary Neuman and they specialise in sexology. Not saying all sexologists are like Neuman but many promote the same misogynstic and male entitlement nonsense. Neuman take note: women are not men’s sexual toys and it is not a woman’s duty or responsibility to never say ‘no’ to a male partner’s demands or expectations.
I too dread to think what Neuman is telling children of divorced parents, especially whether he promotes misogynyistic belief men are entitled and must be constantly sexually serviced by their female partners. Neuman you have an email coming your way and I guarantee you will not like it.
I think any email that I sent to him would automatically end up in the Spam Folder due to the number of expletives contained therein.
Put this together with the Venus & Mars crap and you have:
Give him a blow job before he goes off into his cave.
It all sounds like ‘advice’ to turn yourself into a freebie domestic hooker. I will bet it still won’t stop the cheating bastard from sticking his dick into some other unsuspecting female.
He should had stuck to making bad electro pop….